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Being sure of one's self can bring visceral feelings out in others. I think those feelings come from a place of fear. 

When others see you living your best life, they may get fearful that they are not doing the same. This is not a natural way to feel. We were taught by someone to feel fearful in this way.

The truth of the matter is that you are exactly where you need to be in your life...good and bad. Thinking otherwise puts us in a state of fear that causes unnecessary anxiety. 

Acceptance that you are at this moment because of your own creativity gives you the ability to tweak it as you see fit. Once you understand this concept fully, you are expected to show others how to do the same. Hence why not everyone is going to understand what the heck you are doing! <3