Change ends pain

Assess your relationships and determine which ones you are keeping to avoid a change. Do this with all areas of your life and I'll bet you aren't making a necessary change because it could disrupt someone else's life. We are not meant to live in this kind of duress. 

We've accepted that it is okay to take our misery out on another person. We've made it okay to hurt the ones we love and to accept their hurt in return. This is not how it is supposed to be. Heaping your woes onto someone else for them to cope with is inhumane. How can they cope with your dysfunction while still trying to cope with their own? 

If you want peace in your life...change yourself first. Deal with what needs to be dealt with in your own mind and heart before you take on someone else's stuff. When you are ready to own your stuff, you are ready to allow others to own theirs. Acceptance becomes change. Pain becomes peace. ​

Do your own healing work on yourself. You owe it to yourself and no one else. <3