Nothing is real until you make it real

,Everyone has something that they are good at doing. Sometimes we may have to pause and consider what that thing might be, but it is there. I marvel at the talents that others have that I've attempted, but it wasn't meant to be my thing.

For me, its problem solving...not math problems, but life's challenges. An example would be trying to fit a table into the back of an SUV that isn't going to allow the hatch back to close. There is no rope handy, so a six foot extension cord tied to the table and the front seats secured it for the ten block ride to its destination. 

There is always a solution to every situation if you keep your mind open and look for one. Worry, fret, anxiety, and fear are things that we allow our mind to feel. They deter us from seeing the solution in every situation. The beauty is, you have the power to stop negative emotions anytime you want. You have the ability to control your mind in every situation.

Nothing is real until you make it real. There is no boogey man under your bed. It is only there because you allow your mind to think it is there. You allow your mind to generate the fear that is needed to make you believe you have a boogey man under your bed. You have the power to stop that belief anytime you want.

The solution to living a life without fear is realizing that its YOU who keeps a fear alive. This realization is the talent that we all possess. <3