Disease to Please

From birth to age six our upbringing shapes us for the rest of our life. What we store in our subconscious for those six years will surface as an adult and dictate how you make decisions. 

If you were told a lot of "no's" and made to feel fear during those six years, you will limit yourself. If you are told a lot of "yes's" and made to feel valued, you will push yourself to do more, to be more.

Ever human is capable of achieving more than their mind allows them to think they can. Any reason that you come up with to not excel in life is there because you were taught to be that way. Thankfully it can be untaught. 

Because we are raised with the disease to please, our mind gets locked into what others need before we meet our own needs. The training it took for your mind to believe this will also take training for your mind to overcome this. 

You matter. You are worthy of anything you desire. You are lovable. Forget what anyone else has told you about that and know that you have the power to change everything anytime you want to. <3