Everyone is your reflection

What you perceive as imperfections in other people is a reflection of something you don't like about yourself. It's very hard for people to own this truth. We see the world by who we are deep inside — our experiences, values, beliefs, and opinions.

For example: If you are annoyed that people are coming in late for work, ask yourself why that annoys you. Have you set an unbreakable standard with yourself about time and now you are annoyed that you yourself can never be late? Your annoyance isn't about another's lateness; your annoyance is that you won't allow yourself to be late to your own detriment. 

If you use this rule of thumb on all your annoyances in life you will always be able to trace them back to yourself and your own ideals. If you want peace, let yourself off the hook, which will allow others to be free of your ideals, which will bring you and them peace. <3