Do you

You owe nothing to no one and they owe nothing to you.

In a world where you are made to feel obligated to shoulder another's "stuff" its hard to understand that you don't have to do this. You have way more than enough "stuff" of your own to manage without adding to the load.

If you have shackled yourself to another adult being who you no longer want to be with...leave. If you are staying at a job that you hate because of some twisted loyalty...leave. If you have a friend/family member in your life that you know isn't a healthy relationship for you...leave. There is nothing written anywhere that says that you have to be miserable in this lifetime. 

We become unhappy with life because someone, somewhere, one day told us that if we make our bed we have to lie in it. Not true. If you've made a poor choice in life, you need find the courage to move on from it. 

It is not selfish to want your soul to have peace. It is okay to have a change of heart about something. It is okay for you to do you and to accept that others have the right to do the same for themselves. <3