Discipline or Regret

Because of my upbringing, I have a high threshold for pain. That’s not a badge of honour to wear because it means that I can tolerate more crap from others than I need to. 

To be disciplined is to have self control. It’s the ability to deny oneself in order to avoid unnecessary pain later. It takes a lot to not cave to one’s desire, because it’s you holding you accountable. Who’s going to know, right? Funny thing is that based on what you show the world, it’s obvious if you have discipline or not. 

No is a small word with a mighty punch to it. Use it well and use it often to protect yourself. <3