While you are fretting about other people's perception of you, they are not thinking about you in the same way. Sure, it is possible that you may pop into their head, but not to the extent that you may think. For you to be in someone else's thoughts you have to matter to that person. If you don't matter to that person, they have to be reminded that you exist. 

For example, when you ended a relationship with someone you mourned them leaving your life. After a certain amount of time the person leaves your immediate thoughts as if they were never there in the first place. They may pop into your head from time to time, but that is about it. They have become unimportant. 

This is how you are to the majority of people you know. Even somewhat to those that are closest to you and you to them. For that reason, you shouldn't take anything personally. Carry on with your life like it really doesn't matter what others think. Because it doesn't. <3

Remembering your conversation(s) with God, Creator, Universe, Higher Power is rare. We've all had this moment with the energy from which we were generated. You are here on purpose.

My conversation with God happened when I was six years old. The take away for me from that conversation were the words "trust me and you will find out what it is all for". So I trusted. I wasn't perfect at it, but I understood the importance of believing those words.

Having this secret made me the outsider because I wouldn't conform to untruths. I was labelled "different". Today I wear being different as a badge of honor because I have remained true to myself and my purpose.

There is a shift happening in the world. It is a progression in our evolution. We've tried living the ugly way with hate and wars. We are now shifting towards love and peace. Why? Because goodness always wins. <3

Assuming makes an "ass" out of "u" and "me".

I titled my book The Sun Neither Rises nor Sets because it is the truth. The sun does not rise nor does it set. The earth rotates around the sun. We are moving, not the sun.

We are taught from an early age that the sun rises and sets even though its an untruth. How many other things have you been taught that you have assumed are correct? You believe information because someone you trusted told you what they know to be true. And someone before them told them and so on and so on. 

It can be quite jarring when you realize that what you've always known might not be correct. It can also be quite liberating to have these aha moments of understanding. 

You know what you know, but you can change your thinking anytime you want. Never assume that things are as cut and dry as you would like them to be. <3

There is no past, there is no future, there is only ever now...this moment. I love watching the aha moment when I see the realization of the "now" in someone's eyes. They have discovered the truth!

Your past and your future can only be found in your mind. Only you have an understanding of your past or your desires for the future. They do not exist anywhere else except in your mind. 

"The" past and "the" future do not exist except in text, pictures, museums, and remnants. The only thing that is ever a constant is your now. This moment. Nothing exists outside of this moment. Whatever you think, believe, know, trust, and understand is all in this moment.

Trying to be anywhere else except in the now brings nothing but discontent, anxiety, fear, worry, and a whole host of other negativity. Being present in the now brings peace, trust, honesty, understanding and a whole host of other positivity. 

Let the control go that you never actually had in the first place. Be aware that you are the watcher of your now. Understand fully that you have the power to fulfill your desires, but that doing so can only be done in the now. <3

"In a world where you can be anything, be yourself." Albert Einstein

Of all the things we struggle with in our lifetime, the hardest is figuring out who we are supposed to be. This struggle is due mainly to our incessant need to please others. We are conditioned to look outwards instead of looking inwards.

From birth to six years old are the most important years of our life. Whatever was said or done to us in those six years will become our subconscious and will shape our adulthood. A lot of healing work done as an adult is the task of connecting with our inner child...our subconscious mind. 

Your character can be changed at anytime from good to bad or bad to good and is propelled by your limiting beliefs. The cause for your limiting beliefs are rooted in your subconscious mind and gives you your opinion of the world. 

It takes a lot of strength to do the work required to face your subconscious mind and all of its secrets. It's every person's opportunity to figure out who they are and why they are here. Are you willing to do the work? <3

Asking someone to be thankful when all they can feel is negative emotions takes courage. They are most likely going to react harshly to your suggestion and you will become the target for their wrath. Don't back down. Stand your ground. Be thankful that you can be there for someone who feels so let down by life.

If it is you that is feeling negatively about your life's choices, drill down to the basics. Can you speak, see, hear, smell, taste, touch? If you said yes to any or all of these six things, you should be thankful. Being able to do these things is far more valuable than anything you have going on in your life at the moment. 

When the storm blows over, as it always does, you will move on with your six most valuable assets in life. Be thankful for these blessings. <3

Are you in the know? Are you in the now?

The reason we are only allowed to use 10% of our brain is because the other 90% would scare the heck out of us. If you thought the 2020 pandemic was an out of body experience, 2025 will top it by far. Are you ready?

If you or anyone you know is living life as if external things matter, it is very much time to change that now. Material items will have zero importance as our evolution continues. The ability to understand this evolution is each of our responsibility. Our collective energy has to work together for this understanding to occur.

We are where are in our world today because of humans before us and those that are now in the present. We hold the power. We've always held the power. We just haven't used it wisely. but it is time to do so. Are you ready?

As A Man Thinketh by James Allen (1903):

"Having conceived of his purpose a man should mentally mark out a straight pathway to his achievement looking neither to the right nor the left. Doubts and fears should be rigorously excluded; they are disintegrating elements which break up the straight line of effort rendering it crooked, ineffectual, useless. Lots of doubt and fear never accomplished anything, and never can. They always lead to failure. Purpose, energy, power to do, and all strong thoughts cease when doubt and fear creep in.

The will to do springs from the knowledge that we can do. Doubt and fear are the great enemies of knowledge, and he who encourages them, who does not slay them, thwarts himself at every step.

He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure. His every thought is allied with power, and all difficulties are bravely met and wisely overcome. His purposes are seasonably planted, and they bloom and bring forth fruit which does not fall prematurely to the ground.

Thought allied fearlessly to purpose becomes creative force; he who knows this is ready to become something higher and stronger than a mere bundle of wavering thoughts and fluctuating sensations; he who does this has become the conscious and intelligent wielder of his mental powers."  <3

I try my very best to live my life by two simple mantras:

-Less said; easier mended.
-Use the 24 hour rule.

How do I accomplish this? When you want to respond to someone with negative emotions:
1. Start an email to them.
2. Don't put any names on it.
3. Don't put a subject line.
4. Type everything you are feeling.
5. Read it over a minimum of five times.
6. Delete it.
7. Try again in 24 hours.

By doing this you have possibly saved yourself and someone else from unnecessary hurt. Wisely use that space between hearing and responding. Pause. Choose carefully. Your need to hurt is your issue. Work on that. <3

Why am I here? How many of us have said those words hoping for a lightbulb moment? I know I have. It's a lonely feeling when the answers won't come. 

I've known all my life that I had a purpose. Early on I wasn't exactly certain what this "pull" was that propelled me forward. As I gained wisdom the "pull" revealed itself to me and I wasn't lonely anymore.

Everyone who has been on earth, is on earth, and will be on earth all have a purpose. No life is a wasted life regardless of the thoughts and opinions of others. Every life has to happen for our evolution to happen. 

You had to happen. You had to do your part. You are making a difference. Be at peace with that. <3